If all of this is being learned through this project, how much more is in store to be learned through the actual marriage itself.  I see a resounding theme.  Marriage isn't easy.  But what great thing is ever easy?  I love the lyrics in a song, "If it doesn't hurt, then you aren't loving hard.  Look at Jesus on the cross, he got a ton of scars..." The ultimate portrait of sacrificial, undefiled pure love between Christ and His bride, the Church.  I can't wait to share more and if anything, I hope what I'm learning inspires someone else.